I'm not gay as in happy, I'm queer as in fuck you

My name is Jeff/Jeffery or Krem

I'm 20 yrs old

I'm white

I'm Pangender, Apothema & AroAce

I use all pronouns. He/It are my go to though.

Click here for info on my identity, I suggest doing so before asking questions about it

I'm taken platonically

My old acct was cisphobicagenda. I remade cause that account was filled with old opinions I either didn't agree with anymore or were worded badly.

I'm more than open to being corrected if information I have is wrong or if I have said something offensive.

I use this account to voice my opinions on queer & other topics as well as reblog & boost important posts. If you want me to rb something just ask.

A lot of my opinions I'm not going to debate about cause there's really no point.

If I have no right to discuss a topic I will not do so.

My main Tumblr is j-t-k. But this is a separate account so all interactions come from here.

"Trenders" aren't real. There's no check list you need to complete to be trans. All that is required is to not be cis. Passing isn't required. Dysphoria isn't required. Trans people aren't the reason cis people are transphobic.

Being on the ace or aro spectrum automatically makes you queer. To be cishet you have to be cisgender heterosexual & heteromatic. Ace/aro people who don't want to be called queer/lgbt are valid but they don't speak for everyone. Ace/aro people have ALWAYS been apart of the community. (I am AroAce)

Mogai identities aren't inherently harmful. There are people who make harmful labels but that doesn't reflect on the whole community. Just cause you had a bad time using mogai labels doesn't mean they're immediately bad for everyone. Mogai doesn't make trans people look bad, cis people will be transphobic if they're transphobic no one else causes that. (I use mogai labels)

All wlw/nblw can call themselves lesbians. Historically lesbian was for all wlw/nblw. They can also use the terms femme & butch. Bi/mspec lesbians are valid & not harming bi or lesbian people (I am a mspec gay)

Pronouns do not equal gender. Boys can use she/her. Women can use he/him. He/him lesbians are still lesbians. She/her gays are still gay. Policing pronouns does nothing to help anyone. (I am a she/her gay)

Neopronouns are completely valid & refusing to use them for someone is misgendering. No one is required to give you a set of aux pronouns to use. If you don't wanna use someone's pronouns don't talk about them. (I use neopronouns)

Mspec labels (pan, omni, ply, etc) are not biphobic. There's slight differences that make people want to use them instead of the term bi. Sometimes other people want a different label to describe their sexuality. There's nothing wrong with that & doesn't mean they have internalized biphobia. Mspec people who are biphobic with their definitions of their sexuality don't speak for everyone.

The word queer is not inherently a slur. It's understandable to be uncomfortable with that label but other people can still use it even if you don't like it. Queer is a identity, asking people to tag their identity as a slur is wrong. If you don't use the term queer, then when someone says "queer people" they're not talking about you, so move on.

I support BLM fully. You cannot be racist towards white people. White people are inherently racist & need to actively work to use our privilege to uplift poc & unlearn racist thinking that we are taught.

Fiction effects reality. Romantizing abuse/pedophila/incest in media is harmful no matter what you say. If you use these things to cope with them happening to you, then keep it to yourself instead of putting it on the internet to expose other people to it, whether you meant for it to or not your content will hurt people.

Incest is incest even if they aren't blood related. Adopted & step siblings/parents are still siblings/parents. You can't make excuses to promote & expose others to incest.

Tagging triggers for people is just being respectful. It takes two seconds to tag something. Obviously there's things that are offensive to tag as triggers, those are not included when I say just tag things for people.

I do not have DID so I believe I don't have a say on inner community topics relating to systems. I have no say in what's a real or fake system. I interact with people on both sides of the debate, if that makes you uncomfortable tell me & I will stop interacting with you.